Had I the power to brainwash you!
19th Jul 2016
Again i read posts regarding mothers leaving their small babies as young as 3 months to the hands of their and again i feel so so very helpless..
I just cant stop feeling about the baby all i think is about the child all i care about their pain and its unstoppable!
Reposting from my blog..this is what i feel ....
For a couple of months i have focused a lot of attention to some posts i read on Facebook and other social media sites that cite requirement for, a full time care giver or a baby sitter for mother’s and working parents .
They ask for their babies ranging in the age group of as little as 4 months old up to 18 months and older than this can be kept in day care center or creches.
The growing need for extra income , more comfort and putting education to use in order to feel liberated and satisfying our own self, ego and identity has lead to this whole situation where the ones who actually suffer in all this are the babies.
“Those eyes that keep longing to see their mother, those arms that constantly reach out in vain to grab and hold on to their mothers chest. Those continuous hand and leg movements that continously fight to reach to their mother. The movement of the mouth with lips and tongue that long to kiss and suck onto their mothers breast .
Those cries and yells for mother to come back go in vain”.
As if no body understands them but who are we lying to here we do understand very clearly that baby needs mother and nothing more than his very own mother that bore him inside her for 9 months and he can’t recognize anyone other than her mother where has she gone ?
My heart ached as i again go through the above description, why the little souls have to suffer so much just because they cannot speak or say no or that they can easily forget the pain of l their longing and suffering of the day and forget everything the moment they see their mother.
Necessity is one thing that i can understand for anything other than that doesn’t go through my head every explanation is an excuse in front of the child that keeps longing and waiting to see her mother.
For no other person than his/her own mother can provide anything .
Actually there’s no replacement for a thing called maa.
The newborns and some months old babies cannot even speak and god forbid if anything happens to them at the hands of the person you leave them to in care of can one forgive themselves in such conditions.
Am shocked and aghast to see how can people trust for their precious ones. We keep money and gold in utmost safe places, be it best banks or best brand safes and lockers.
And when we need a care giver or an Aaya for baby there’s no brand or best for that. More over we blindly give in with our trust in few minutes of meeting that person because time is running out and we need to get back to work soon.
I personally think when we can already have a decent life in the income of one person that can be any one mother or father then what is the need for the other one to work for.
The point is why should the child suffer or let me put it this way why should you miss the golden years of your baby who is just beginning to bloom and grow and learn and experience new things of life.
No amount of money property or your own liberation can measure up to the amount of pain your baby goes through by just not seeing you around him.
For job and money can have their own time when she or he begins for school or is some years old to be able to put to use some life skills .
Babies and kids who cannot express themselves are very vulnerable beings, don’t let them to care of a person you haven’t spent some years with. It is important to learn human psychology people are great actors they are different in front of you and completely different in your absence.
You just can’t trust nor leave him with her alone . that’s it !
And even if a child is sble to speak but can’t express just because he was warned scared and scarred for not letting out that secret .
What can one do?
Simple “IF THERE’S NO NEED THEN DON’T LEAVE YOUR BABY”
Am equally sorry and angry at the condition of today’s world where parents willingly leave their small wonders for everything small in this world.
If you feel bad after reading my post apologies to you but i just can’t see babies crying for their mothers .
It literally tears my heart when i see their teary eyes longing for their mothers. It is worst thing to see a baby crying all day for his mom.
To sit back home and becoming a full time mom is a thing am proud of i don’t need a shit job to liberate myself or create my identity.
I am enlightened enough to appreciate life and the life i have created and lives that surround me by being happy from within.